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This is from the book "The Machiavellian's Guide to Womanizing" by Nick Casanova:
This is the PUA Comic answer:
I'd rather spend ten nights fucking DIFFERENT women. I've been in a long-term relationship before and the sex becomes so boring and predictable that you want to die. It becomes a fucking chore. I'd rather KILL MYSELF than get married. I'd rather have a box of tissues and and extensive porn collection than a girlfriend.
I'm saying all this because a friend of mine just told me that he proposed to his long-term girlfriend. This guy was recently complaining to me that he is bored SHITLESS of having sex with his girlfriend. So what does he go and do? Marry the bitch. Fuck. This guy has hit the gym, fixed his teeth and even had cosmetic surgery and now looks really good - he got his girlfriend before he did all this, so basically, he could get a way hotter girl if he wanted to.
Fuckers get lazy and complacent, that's why they get married. They don't realize that there are way better chicks out there. I agree with 60's theory that most guys are after affection and not sex. Society tries to make out like guys only want sex, but in my experience, most guys are just looking for that one special chick. It's fucking retarded.
Lefty/Johnny, word me up motherfucker.
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My friends are starting to get married/engaged, and I am watching them slowly turn into pussys controlled by their women. I don't get it. This seems to happen to most men.
Is it really just laziness and fear of not getting another girl? I don't get it.
60s ideas are interesting about the female agenda, why do men need female affection so much?
I think if you wanted a strong bond with a woman, NOT getting married would prove that both of you really want to truly stay together, not just stay together for a legal contract.
Pierce Brosnan's wife before and after marriage:
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yes, a lot of men feel very relieved to be 'finally out of the game', they believe they can now let it all go and be lame like they always felt like being, but couldn't afford to because they wanted to be able to impress girls.
so they probably don't want to go back to it all.
fact is you can never allow yourself to be lame, especially in a relationship. the tendency needs to be fought at all times! to be honest it's pretty tiring to me, because being lame is great. but, i don't want a lame life. bummer.
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My friend was also saying how shit nightclubs were and how crap New Year's Eve was right before he told me he's engaged. No doubt that contributed to his decision to get married. He's the sort of guy who goes into the nightclub and says that the place sucks and all the people are losers, even though he hasn't met them - what 60 calls Social Mental Masturbation. Guys don't like going out so they get married. Fuck that.
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It's possible to get rid of that feeling you know. The feeling of needing affection. Cuz it's not real it's just a learnt illusion like alot of things.
You can feel the feeling of love without being in love with someone. It's just that people believe since childhood that they need another person to feel the feeling of love. Not true.
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While i don't understand marriage that much ( and i go along with most of your complain...) i can understand that someone have fallen in love, others feel the biologic clock and others have no choice but....
i ve no idea. i m thinking of De-baptize just for the sake of not marrying in a church if i ever reproduce by mistake
im not a fukken hound, i know that...
i d go with 3 different women, for 3 nite each and just 1 earning the last night.
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Have your cake and eat it too...just become mormon, that or a "cheater"...
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I'd rather have sex with the same woman 10x.
I have found that most of the time sex is better in a relationship than it is from just fucking around.
If you just fuck a girl once or twice, sex is usually not going to be that great. When you are with a girl for longer periods of time sex usually gets exponentially better over time.
Of course you have to screen for the right type of girl. Just make sure to get with a girl who likes to experiment in bed.
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Haha, why can't I just have both?!?!
I'd have a difficult time answering that, because both of them are great sometimes. Sometimes I want just one girl to defile morning noon and night, and sometimes I just want to fuck everything with a pulse and a baby chasm.
Yeah I don't know that I'm 100% sold on 60's theory about relationships though.
I do know that there's a crisis of masculinity in our society. Men just aren't real men any more. Not just within the community, but everywhere. And women fuckin hate it. Shit, I fuckin hate it.
To give a small example, which I see all the time on different levels:
The other night I went on a triple date of sorts with a girl I've been seeing for a while, with 2 of her friends and their husbands. One couple had been married about a year, and the other for almost 3 years.
Both dudes were cool as fuck, but the dude who had been married for a year was clearly a pussy when it came to his woman. She fuckin owned him. Got irritated at every other thing he said, and he kept asking her, "Is everything ok?" all night, just being a straight bitch. It started annoying the fuck outta me, even. I just wanted to grab the dude and shake him for being so retarded.
The other guy on the other hand, was just being himself. Shooting the shit, having fun, confident, whatever. He was laid back, and you could tell the dude really didn't give a fuck and wouldn't be swayed if his wife went into some bullshit. He'd probably laugh it off. His wife of 3 years was clearly into him, they looked like a brand new couple.
The 3 girls were running around doing shit, taking shots, talking amongst themselves, dancing around giggling as we all sat and talked. 1 year dude kept looking nervously over at the girls to see what was going on, worried. Like they were gonna fly away or suddenly have an orgy or some shit. He kept making stupid comments like, "Oh no, they're getting shots." 3 year dude was just in the conversation, wasn't even paying any mind to what the girls were doing. He was having just as much fun talking to us as when the girls were around.
I see this shit alllll the time in life. At the store I used to work at, you'd have these ANGRY looking wives come in with their faggot husband in tow, looking like a little sad puppy dog. The guy is a bitch, so she becomes increasingly more and more annoyed, bitchy, and disgusted with him. It
women when we are not real men. To the point now where I get exactly where they're coming from, because when I see it I want to slap the guy and be like, man the fuck up. Be a man. Control your domain, motherfucker.
Ohhhhh it's sooooo hard. SHUT THE FUCK UP, PUSSY. Being a man is hard, so what. Try child birth, faggot. Jesus. I know I sure as hell couldn't handle it.
Women don't want you to be their little errand boy. They want you to be a man. A cool, laid back dude that's not fidgeting around and worrying about shit like they are.
A counterpoint.
One of my ex's who I've been broken up with for 3 years, who has been with and met countless guys in between, still says to this day, "You're the only guy I've ever met who I've continued to want to have sex with just as much since day one. Even after all this time, when we hang out, I just want to rape you 90% of the time." Why? Because I'm a fucking man. I've been the same (not stagnant, mind you) since I met her 4 years ago. I've grown, I've blossomed, I've been through shit, gained weight, lost weight, etc. but one thing remains and always will, I'm a fuckin MAN.
Man up, and women will be begging you to give them affection.
Haha, rant over. I'm gonna stop here, although I could be here for days.
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Am I the only one who notices that most guys get married because the girl is already pregnant? Nobody likes to talk about it, and everyone always snaps "you shouldn't get married just because she's pregnant" but it occurs soooooo often. My parents wouldn't admit to it, even though I obviously know my oldest sibling's birthday and my parents' wedding date, put 2 and 2 together and my mom was one and a half months pregnant at her wedding. I've had 3 friends who had shotgun weddings and six, seven or eight months later, BAAAM, a kid pops out. I think most guys, who have any game whatsoever, don't settle down till it's to late and the egg is fertilized.
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